Thursday 15 November 2018

Takeaways from Jane Austen’s classic “Pride and Prejudice”


I happened to read the book ‘Pride and Prejudice’ by Jane Austen recently. I had first read this book during my teenage years and those days, I thought of it as nothing more than a love story set in the 18th century.

When I started reading this book again after a gap of around 25 years, the perspective was completely different. I started with hesitation as I knew the writing style would be archaic and the story would be slow compared to the later fiction that I have been accustomed to. However, this book had so many takeaways that I could not resist penning them down for future reflection.

1.     Writing Style – The long winding sentences, though archaic in form, are so profound and every phrase significant that it is indeed a pleasure to read them.
A sample - He was anxious to avoid the notice of his cousins, from a conviction that if they saw him depart, they could not fail to conjecture his design, and he was not willing to have the attempt known till its success might be known likewise; for though feeling almost secure, and with reason, for Charlotte had been tolerably encouraging, he was comparatively diffident since the adventure of Wednesday.”

2.     Characterization -
Each character is so carefully described and if you actually look around you, shades of these personalities are seen in the real world even today.
Mrs Bennet – Scheming woman, whose sole aim in life is to get her daughters married. She doesn’t mind parading them in front of gentlemen or military officers. The happiness of her daughters in the marriage is of no consequence. She just wants them to be married and stay close to her.
Mr Bennet Father of five daughters, with no property of his own. However, never saved his income or planned for their welfare. Took refuge in his books and solitude, instead of shaping the personalities of his daughters.
Jane Bennet – Shy and demure. Never allowed her feelings to be shown to others. Always optimistic and finds good in every person and every situation. Gives allowance to people for their mistakes.
Elizabeth Bennet – Witty, lively and playful. Being the protagonist and the one with the ‘Prejudice’ in the title, her character has been described in great detail, the different moods, the transformation of her prejudice to cordiality to gratitude to love has evolved. Unafraid of authorities or titles, not swayed by wealth or power, of course she had her share of faults too -  her rude rejection of Mr Darcy, the pity towards Charlotte for marrying Mr Collins.

Charles Bingley – Easy-going personality, but one who is diffident and depends on the judgment of his friend more than his own feelings.

Lydia Bennet – Frivolous and insensitive to the feelings of family members or others. Wholly focused on balls, dresses, officers and gossip. No sense of purpose in life.
Wickham – Double-faced person. Appears very charming and pleasing to everyone, but no qualms in double-crossing them. Leaves debts wherever he goes, and spreads rumours. No sense of obligation, responsibility or gratitude.
… and many more.

3.     Various aspects that people look for in a marriage
Charlotte Lucas -  Marriage is a necessity and if the partner has a good character, connections and job, it is enough to have a fair chance of happiness.
Lydia Bennet – Freedom and opportunity to attend many balls and parties.
Elizabeth Bennet -  Looks for a lively, well-read and superior partner with whom she can carry on interesting debates and learn something new each day. One who can understand her frankness. Wealth and material comforts are not the primary objective.
Jane Bennet – Believes in love and affection in a marriage.

4.     Prejudices can be overcome with an open mind.
Though Elizabeth was strongly prejudiced against Darcy, she read his letter with an open mind. She was able to put away the past instances when she encountered him at Pemberly estate and remain civil. Similarly her prejudice against the happy marriage of Charlotte Lucas and Mr Collins was overcome when she visited them for six weeks and observed them.

5.     Good deeds are done not to impress but to see joy in the eyes of one you love.
Most often, people do good deeds to impress someone they love or hope for a benefit from. However, the character of Darcy is shown to be so magnanimous and helpful. After seeing Elizabeth in distress over the elopement of Lydia with Wickham, he ensures their return and arranges money for repayment of all debts and gets them married. Over and above this, he requests that this information should not be disclosed to Elizabeth and her family. He has only done it for their joy and comfort.

6.     Take cognizance of feedback and work on overcoming shortcomings.
Elizabeth turns down the proposal of Darcy with very harsh words and in so doing, she reveals her impressions of his character based on his actions and words. Though completely shocked, stunned and angry, he does not regret his proposal. Instead, he reflects on what she has said and tries to amend his shortcomings, not just in interactions towards her but to all.

Of course, there are many more, but no wonder, this book is considered one of the classics. Even after so many centuries of this book, it can still be read and considered a masterpiece in this fast paced, technologically advanced era.